Whenever I meet with a student or working with someone on a plan or idea, I ask this question: "If everything were to go perfectly with this situation, what does that look like? Give me details." This is one of the first exercises in my DYP framework. This question is second only to the question of one's purpose or value behind their journey but is just as important for a couple reasons. Firstly, it's an exercise in limitless thinking. We don't often allow ourselves the luxury or the imagination of picturing our success, unfettered by our own doubts or perceived obstacles. We play it safe, consciously and subconsciously. We know we want to succeed at our goals but we'd rather envision the more "realistic" version of that success from our current vantage point. We don't want to think of the outcomes of plans we can't even begin to fathom. Secondly, this question provides clarity. If you haven't taken the time to envision the perfect outcome for your venture, goal, or idea, how will you effectively identify resources that can get you there? Worse yet, how will you even define where "there" actually is? If your vision of success is the destination point, but you haven't clearly defined what that looks like, progress will be difficult to determine, opportunities for advancement will be missed, and potential distractions may go unchecked. By giving yourself the opportunity to envision your success perfectly and in great detail, you allow yourself to see your proximity from where you are, to where you are actually trying to go. From this vantage point you can start to develop a plan and a strategy to get you from where you are to where you would like to be. Of course things happen. Life almost always has its own version of plans compared to our visions. But that's ok too. Having a vision of your success is not an insurance policy for your perfect vision, but it can be your best bet to land closer to your most perfect version of your success than vaguely among your uncertainty. So if everything were to go perfectly for you, what's your Vision of Success? Leave your comments below .You can also head over to my Facebook page. Know someone who could use this advice? Forward it on to them. Do you want to know how you or your team could be Directing Your Purpose, contact me. Don't forget to sign-up for my mailing list. You can also follow me on Facebook Twitter and Instagram.
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8/27/2018 05:28:28 pm
WOW, this article is sooooo yummy!!!! I like to believe that I am pretty good with having a vision for my business and other aspirations, but this article left me with a bit of uncertainty that my vision is drawn up and outlined as it should be. I don’t think it is. I know it isn’t. I’ve not envisioned and clearly drawn out what BJB Youth Training Services end result or success looks like for me. I’ve been a bit heartbroken actually that I’ve not experienced the success I’ve desired to date. I’ve been even disgusted that my job seems to consume the time I wished I were spending on growing my business and doing my workshop trainings and speaking engagements around youth personal and professional development, youth leadership, youth achievement and self-reliance... All I want to do is be there with the young people; especially girls, young women and foster youth. I feel that most everything else is in the way. I know I have some personal subconscious mental blocks and barriers to realize and conquer! I’ll start first with painting the picture clear/detailing the vision and end result. Thanks Ruby for your insight and forethought.
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